Wednesday, May 20, 2009
互补=火花?
I "kapo" my colleague's newspaper when I walked past his desk.
Read an article: 爱情中的主权
“觉得这种主控权已经变成了一场自导自演的故事,男友好像是个听话的孩子,什么都不想思索或给意见。幸福的爱情是这样吗?主控权不是所谓的“千依百顺”,随和或霸道这样简单。这是一种沟通,一种了解彼此的管道。主控权应该视不同场合,状况和问题。在两人中找适合的主力。伴侣应通过解决问题一同成长,了解彼此。要如何知道自己在感情上是否失去主控权。那就要问自己在做任何决定的时候,你是否有考虑对方是否喜欢?如果每一次都有这样的顾虑,你已失去主控权,也失去自己。
对于这段字,我似乎想到某一个人。的确我相信沟通。有时我在想。。我真的是在自编自导这一切吗?我想我们真的能互补。我并不是个很有自信的人。可能工作上也没什么作为。。 你却对工作充满热忱,对工作绝对的认真,几乎要求完美。人际方面就一般般。。
我呢就当一天和尚,敲一天钟。。 LIve in the moment. 朋友就比你多一点啦。。
互补=火花?
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Dinner at Restaurant Ember
Saturday, May 02, 2009
I really don look forward to my bday
I have been singing the third birthday song as of today. I felt that I have already turn 25 even before the exact date .. Thank you all my galfrens who remember my birthday and take the time to celebrate it..
Also to my wonderful colleagues who gave me a watch while having lunch at T1.
I have been looking forward to my birthday since the beginning of the year.. even more so..
during the last 2 weeks. .. due to unforeseen circumstances.. I feel that I no longer feel that way.
It's a strange feeling.. something you always wanted but something else happens.. you just feel not right...
I think e reason for me feeling this way is that something just went out of control.. and seemed like nothing is right..
I think i should do the right thing. Though the thought of it makes it unbearable.. I don know if I am able to do so..
Happy birthday girl.. U have come a long way.. and yup.
My only wish is that everyone stays happy and healthy. =)