Saturday, August 13, 2005
Marriage
I think my brother getting married soon. Maybe next yr? maybe this yr? ROM = Married right?
In singapore, when a guy suggested buying house means " shall we get married?"? so STANDARD. SO SIANZ.. SO Not HaPPEnING. hha.. Yesterday, i asked my "sis-in-law", my brother proposed to u le? hah.. She said haven't. She said my brother is planning. So, she is quite thrilled and excited. hah.. I cannot imagine la.. EXcited? Maybe. hha. I thought a proposal is special and exciting when you don't know when he will "action" mah.. Anyway. My "sis-in-law" is great. Though i knew my brother's previous gfs.. All are nice. Nice to me. The previous air stewardess is nice too. Pretty also. Get along with my family quite well also. However, i think they are just not meant to be la. Sometimes, you cannot help but believe that things happen for a reason.
You may not get married to the one you love most. (heez.. my sis-in-law.. told me that. She once loved this "policeman".. but they didn get together". In e end, she ended with my "poor fat brother". hha..
She also said that my brother changed alot for her. Hmm.. I must say that my brother really put in effort in his work. More.. "jiao ta shi di".
My brother has been through long relationships (5 yrs n above), short one (fling for few weeks).. In e end, he end up with my 'sis-in-law" whom he just know like last year july. And now wat.. getting a house n planning to get married.
The moral of this story is that. It doesn't matter how long is your relationship. When e time is right, the person is some how right. Your feeling is right.. your financial status is ok. Then WHY NOT?
Being the younger sister, i feel excited esp when my whole family went to look at the house (that my brother they all planning to buy). Hah.. I also wanna get married. =)