Sunday, December 18, 2005
Sunday Volunteering
it's a habit now. Family day. I finally have my family day on Sunday. ha..
Today I woke feeling peculiar. "eh.. how come my dad din wake me up to eat breakfast with my brother?" It seems that every Sunday, my whole family including my sis-in-law (Zoel)n my brother will go for Breakfast and head off to their new house to clean e house. The whole family is helpin my brother "renovate" the house. Painting job will be done on 25 dec and 1st of Jan. =D
It feels kinda warmth(wen xing) lo.. Maybe I am an adult now. I'm no longer a school girl.. I am just waiting for my turn to earn bring back bread n butter.. and pay for e necessary bills.. ha..
Today, Zoel was looking at a letter sent by the Town council.. It is a bill for the maintenance & servicing of the flat la... mthly bill - $80. Haiz. another bill to pay. sucks siah..
Everything also needs $$ manz.. I think my brother is having a headache! ha..
I was just thinkin.. hmm.. maybe when the house is ready, i can move over my brother's hse to stay.. (tt is after i start work first).. ha e flat is big.. =) a HDB mansionette.. heez.. I can imagine lo.. Wah. That'll be such a perfect situation lo..
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Zoel's advice "next time, if you marry.. marry a rich guy.. then.. u no need to work so hard. If not, get a husband like ur brother who is hardworkin?" ????
Well, i must say that my brother has got a goal now.. No longer is he.. idling.. boozing.. wasting his youth away. At least he now has a house and a wife to take care.. so, having a goal is important!
AFter his downfall in 2004, he picked himself up.. and yup. I am proud of him. My good brother.
AFter hearing e advice from Zoel, I am just so glad that I have no burden now. Young and Single.. and spending what i want (salsa lessons )... =P
Quote: Sometimes, it isn't a bad thing if you fall down, because you will learn and grow up. The biggest mistake is never learn your mistakes. - Zoel
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In Perhaps Love (movie), True love is always in your memory, but you will never be with your true love. Well, in life, we may have one or several true loves.. However, each memory is worth keeping. But, i truly believe, true love means allowing them to choose their own identity, who they want to be with.. hao wei ta ah..
U can never change e fact, or others, the best way you can do is accept it, change your perceptions. And move on.
I realise that people around me.. don't like moving on. I don't understand why. I hope I will never have to deal with such situations..
=( my dance partner say I'm fat. =( I am so gonna diet.
I am going Msia for chi New Year. Gg to my grand pa pa hse.. KL .. Genting.. =D YEah..